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World AIDS Day – Get Tested and Remembering

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As we all know, today is World AIDS Day and Black Gay Men’s Blog urges black gay and bisexual men and MSM to get tested. There is a lot of power in knowing your HIV status, it can save your life and prevent you from passing the virus on to…

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Sexuality and Identity: Does Gay Sex Make One Homosexual?

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The previous blog post about black gay and bisexual men seducing straight men prompted a lot discussion on Facebook and on Skype. I decided to start a separate dialog, because there was a lot of focus on whether or not a man could be considered straight if he has had…

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Black Gay Men and Seducing Straight Dudes

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It’s advice time again at Black Gay Men’s Blog, as Zamo, a bisexual black male, needs help seducing his straight neighbor. Gay and bisexual men lusting after straight dudes is nothing new and as long as same sex attraction exists, there will be a black gay man(or in this case,…

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Black Gay Relationships In A Facebook World

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Black Gay Men’s Blog explores friendships, dating and relationships in this digital age of Facebook, Twitter and texting, which has left many of us socially challenged. It is quite ironic that with all the current means of communication, many black gay men have been left unable to and unwilling to…

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Black Gay Men Becoming Transexuals For Straight Trade

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This is an interesting skit on why some black gay men become transsexuals. At first glance, it might come across as just a funny skit, but there might be some truth to it. Some black gay men are enticed into to the world of wigs/weaves and pumps by the promise…

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Black Gay Fem Discrimination – Ur Story

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Black Gay Men’s Blog would like to hear from black gay men, who are fem and have faced discrimination from other black gay men. I have received lots of emails from you guys asking us to explore this topic. We have set up a page with a form which has…

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Sexual Monogamy and Black Gay Relationships

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Black Gay Men’s Blog advice column, Ask Storm, returns with a question about black gay relationships and sexual monogamy. Is it wrong not to want to be monogamous? Should black gay men define their own relationships?

The Dangers of Blind Hook Ups

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Black Gay Men’s Blog Contributor and Author, Rafael Solece, explores the dangers of blind hook ups and the rise of violent crimes against black gay men. Are we as black gay men being to callous about our own safety? Do we as black gay men think that because we are men…

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Brotherhood TV’s Amir: A Passionate New Voice

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Black Gay Men’s Blog recently interviewed Amir, the 21 year old, co-founder of Brotherhood TV, the new weekly web series, aimed at gay and bisexual black men and men of color. Every now and then, a young black gay man comes along, who totally dispels the myth that all young…

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Black Gay Men and Fat Discrimination: Jackson’s Story

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Black Gay Men’s Blog looks at fat discrimination in the black gay community, through the eyes of Jackson, a handsome, obese, thirty-two year old, black gay male. Fat bias or discrimination is by no means limited to  black gay men or the gay community at large. However, for brothers like…

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Are Black Gay Men Honest When It Comes To Sex

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Black Gay Men’s Blog Contributor, AntycingGent, recently published an article on his blog, Unorthodox Wisdom and he wanted to share it with readers of Black Gay Men’s Blog. AntycingGent’s blog post brings up an issue we have mentioned a few times – black gay men and honesty, with regards to…

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Lessons In Black Gay Love Part One – James and Byron

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James and Byron, a black gay couple, who have been together for 8 years share some survival tips with Black Gay Men’s Blog in Part One of Lessons In Black Gay Love.

Black Gay Friendship, Loyalty and Indiscretion

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What Would You Do? Black Gay Men’s Blog edition. If you caught your best friend’s man cheating, what would you do and would the HIV status of the person he was cheating with influence your decision? How important are friendship and loyalty to black gay men?

Black Gay Incest and Sexual Abuse: LaDarrell Speaks

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Black Gay Men’s Blog takes a look at incest and how it can impact the lives of black gay men. Sexual abuse is still very much a dirty word and not often spoken about in many black families. Throw incest into the mix and the silence is deafening. As black…

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