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		<title>Comment on Fighting Nigeria&#8217;s Anti-Gay Bill by Morten Mikkelsen</title>
		<link>http://www.blackgaymensblog.com/2011/12/07/fighting-nigeria-anti-gay-bill/#comment-2468</link>
		<dc:creator>Morten Mikkelsen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 00:04:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i would love a big black man to take care of me</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i would love a big black man to take care of me</p>
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		<title>Comment on Black Gay Incest &amp; Abuse With  A Twist Chez Johnson by Michael Charles</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael Charles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Dec 2011 07:23:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What David &amp; LaFayette said!  In addition, this film enlightened me on the trials and circumstances of a family that produced and promoted such relationships portrayed in the film; this was all a bit hard to swallow (figuratively), but it was enlightening and heartbreaking to see all of the family members, central and peripheral, affected and destroyed by this idea of eccentric, but persisting and unique passion.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What David &amp; LaFayette said!  In addition, this film enlightened me on the trials and circumstances of a family that produced and promoted such relationships portrayed in the film; this was all a bit hard to swallow (figuratively), but it was enlightening and heartbreaking to see all of the family members, central and peripheral, affected and destroyed by this idea of eccentric, but persisting and unique passion.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Black Gay Incest &amp; Abuse With  A Twist Chez Johnson by Michael Charles</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael Charles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Dec 2011 07:23:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What David &amp; LaFayette said!  In addition, this film enlightened me on the trials and circumstances of a family that produced and promoted such relationships portrayed in the film; this was all a bit hard to swallow (figuratively), but it was enlightening and heartbreaking to see all of the family members, central and peripheral, affected and destroyed by this idea of eccentric, but persisting and unique passion.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What David &amp; LaFayette said!  In addition, this film enlightened me on the trials and circumstances of a family that produced and promoted such relationships portrayed in the film; this was all a bit hard to swallow (figuratively), but it was enlightening and heartbreaking to see all of the family members, central and peripheral, affected and destroyed by this idea of eccentric, but persisting and unique passion.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Fighting Nigeria&#8217;s Anti-Gay Bill by Gregg Lane</title>
		<link>http://www.blackgaymensblog.com/2011/12/07/fighting-nigeria-anti-gay-bill/#comment-2444</link>
		<dc:creator>Gregg Lane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2011 19:33:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Disgusting, and, much of this govt hate is being backed by US evangelical &#039;Christians&quot; and, sadly the citizens fall for this hate as the same govt won&#039;t do a thing about the rampant poverty that ails these places, and, the same citizens won&#039;t demand better, so, easy targets, glbt&#039;s, and, even those who are not but said to be, sad and sick.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Disgusting, and, much of this govt hate is being backed by US evangelical &#8216;Christians&#8221; and, sadly the citizens fall for this hate as the same govt won&#8217;t do a thing about the rampant poverty that ails these places, and, the same citizens won&#8217;t demand better, so, easy targets, glbt&#8217;s, and, even those who are not but said to be, sad and sick.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Fighting Nigeria&#8217;s Anti-Gay Bill by Neil2BlackNJ</title>
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		<dc:creator>Neil2BlackNJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2011 05:06:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for making us aware of what&#039;s going on with our Nigerian LGBT fam.

I hope the President doesn&#039;t sign this bill. There needs to be a central site where we can follow this up/learn about protests etc. This is so wrong and we should all do what we can.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for making us aware of what&#8217;s going on with our Nigerian LGBT fam.</p>
<p>I hope the President doesn&#8217;t sign this bill. There needs to be a central site where we can follow this up/learn about protests etc. This is so wrong and we should all do what we can.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Black Gay Incest &amp; Abuse With  A Twist Chez Johnson by Neil2BlackNJ</title>
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		<dc:creator>Neil2BlackNJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2011 04:54:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very bold and daring movie!

I too saw all the crazy comments from black people about this movie, but most haven&#039;t even watched the whole thing, they just saw the trailer. As usual many of us would rather the family wasn&#039;t black. I say it is a story that needs to be told, who cares if the family is black or the director white? Others called it a &quot;gay movie&quot; and were mad at the little boy&#039;s parents for allowing him to play that role. SMDH!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very bold and daring movie!</p>
<p>I too saw all the crazy comments from black people about this movie, but most haven&#8217;t even watched the whole thing, they just saw the trailer. As usual many of us would rather the family wasn&#8217;t black. I say it is a story that needs to be told, who cares if the family is black or the director white? Others called it a &#8220;gay movie&#8221; and were mad at the little boy&#8217;s parents for allowing him to play that role. SMDH!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Black Gay Incest &amp; Abuse With  A Twist Chez Johnson by AntycingGent</title>
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		<dc:creator>AntycingGent</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2011 03:30:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is interesting on many different levels to answer the initial question I wouldn&#039;t feel any differently about the film even if it had been created by an Black man or woman. I do think it was a story worth telling because it&#039;s something that has probably never been showcased yet it&#039;s something that occurs. I think the most disturbing part of the film wasn&#039;t the interaction between the son and father, but that the mother became aware of the situation and still didn&#039;t do anything to put an end to it. I think she&#039;s just as guilty as the rest of the family.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is interesting on many different levels to answer the initial question I wouldn&#8217;t feel any differently about the film even if it had been created by an Black man or woman. I do think it was a story worth telling because it&#8217;s something that has probably never been showcased yet it&#8217;s something that occurs. I think the most disturbing part of the film wasn&#8217;t the interaction between the son and father, but that the mother became aware of the situation and still didn&#8217;t do anything to put an end to it. I think she&#8217;s just as guilty as the rest of the family.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Fighting Nigeria&#8217;s Anti-Gay Bill by Deji Ibadan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deji Ibadan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2011 19:13:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wale, I feel exactly the same way you do.

Most of us in Nigeria haven&#039;t even come out to family yet, so it&#039;s not like we were rushing to get married. If the govt doesn&#039;t want gay people to get married, fine. That&#039;s still being fought for in other countries. But why do we have to be thrown in prison for going to a gay club or for selling a ring to a gay couple, who want to exchange vows? It is so ridiculous.

As with anything in Nigeria, it is the poor, who will suffer. I was always one of those, who chose to stay in Nigeria and help build my country etc. I went to school in England and I could have stayed, but chose to return. I have an appointment at the British Consulate in 2 weeks. I&#039;m out of here!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wale, I feel exactly the same way you do.</p>
<p>Most of us in Nigeria haven&#8217;t even come out to family yet, so it&#8217;s not like we were rushing to get married. If the govt doesn&#8217;t want gay people to get married, fine. That&#8217;s still being fought for in other countries. But why do we have to be thrown in prison for going to a gay club or for selling a ring to a gay couple, who want to exchange vows? It is so ridiculous.</p>
<p>As with anything in Nigeria, it is the poor, who will suffer. I was always one of those, who chose to stay in Nigeria and help build my country etc. I went to school in England and I could have stayed, but chose to return. I have an appointment at the British Consulate in 2 weeks. I&#8217;m out of here!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Fighting Nigeria&#8217;s Anti-Gay Bill by Wale Lawson</title>
		<link>http://www.blackgaymensblog.com/2011/12/07/fighting-nigeria-anti-gay-bill/#comment-2433</link>
		<dc:creator>Wale Lawson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2011 18:58:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This makes me so ashamed to be Nigerian. We are meant to move forward, not backwards. All this hate I&#039;m reading on Nigerian blogs is insane. We were never so preoccupied with homosexuality. It is almost as if religion has eroded the minds of the masses.Every &quot;argument&quot; if we can call it that, is full of quotes from the Bible (and Koran, for those who were raised Muslim). As long as the Senate and House of Representatives are full of religious fanatics, there can be no Human Rights.

I am so sickened by all of this. This gives frustrated individuals the license to behave like they do in Jamaica. A friend of mine(in Lagos) just called me today, he is considering fleeing his home, because suddenly, he is being threatened for being gay. He has been in that neighborhood for 4 years and never threatened before, even though he has always been very effeminate. I have referred him to you, Storm, so he can tell his story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This makes me so ashamed to be Nigerian. We are meant to move forward, not backwards. All this hate I&#8217;m reading on Nigerian blogs is insane. We were never so preoccupied with homosexuality. It is almost as if religion has eroded the minds of the masses.Every &#8220;argument&#8221; if we can call it that, is full of quotes from the Bible (and Koran, for those who were raised Muslim). As long as the Senate and House of Representatives are full of religious fanatics, there can be no Human Rights.</p>
<p>I am so sickened by all of this. This gives frustrated individuals the license to behave like they do in Jamaica. A friend of mine(in Lagos) just called me today, he is considering fleeing his home, because suddenly, he is being threatened for being gay. He has been in that neighborhood for 4 years and never threatened before, even though he has always been very effeminate. I have referred him to you, Storm, so he can tell his story.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Fighting Nigeria&#8217;s Anti-Gay Bill by Adolphous Brian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adolphous Brian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2011 18:36:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just feel for those in Nigeria and also those in Jamaica whom are experiencing this unjust way of life. As on person wrote rejected by their own country.  When will people stop and think we were born this way. Another form of bullying from Government</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just feel for those in Nigeria and also those in Jamaica whom are experiencing this unjust way of life. As on person wrote rejected by their own country.  When will people stop and think we were born this way. Another form of bullying from Government</p>
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