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Are You My Hero?

black gay men and our need for a hero

Black Gay Men’s Bog Contributor, Author, Rafael Solece discusses the need some black gay men have to find and be rescued by a hero. Like damsels in distress, some black gay men seem to be forever searching for that strong, perfect, financially secure, great in bed, hero to miraculously enter…

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Black Gay Men: Lust vs Family Values

advice: black gay men lust and family values

The Black Gay Men’s Blog advice column returns with a question about lust vs family values. Kordell is a 26 year old black gay male, who is attracted to his mother’s fiance. He admits to having an attraction and preference for the downlow and bisexual type, but finds himself torn…

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Denial – The Silent Black Gay Killer

black gay men and denial the silent killer

Black Gay Men’s Blog explores denial and the effect it has on the psychological, spiritual and physical well-being of black gay men. When one thinks about denial, as it relates to black gay men, it is easy to focus on accepting one’s sexuality and coming out. However, it runs much…

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Negotiating Safer Sex In An Increasingly Raw World

black gay men negotiating safer sex in a raw world

Black Gay Men’s Blog is back – with a look negotiating safer-sex in an increasingly raw world. As black gay men of all ages are faced with rising expectations and demands for raw aka bareback sex, how do we negotiate what we really want sexually? Does “peer pressure” come into…

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Black Gay Men’s Blog Returns

Black Gay  Men’s Blog will return with regular blog postings tomorrow. I have had a lot of personal stuff going on the last couple of months, so apologies for any inconvenience caused. Look forward to brining you more stuff and hearing from you guys.  

Fighting Nigeria’s Anti-Gay Bill

Nigeria Anti-Gay Bill - Black Gay Men Fight Homophobia

Unless you have been living under a rock, you have probably heard that Nigeria’s senate recently passed a bill, the Nigerian Same Sex Marriage Bill 2011,  making gay marriage a criminal offence, punishable by 14 years in prison. The Anti-Gay Bill, as it has been dubbed also seeks to punish…

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World AIDS Day Health Show – Tonight at 8pm

black gay mens' blog presents the HIV and AIDS health show on Papi Chulo Radio

Black Gay Men’s Blog and BMK (Brooklyn Men Konnect) are sponsoring the World AIDS Day Health Show, tonight at 8pm Eastern on Papi Chulo Radio. A panel of HIV activists and health care professionals get together to discuss HIV/AIDS awareness and prevention.  Panelists include, Kevin (Kaoz) Moore (Out Hip Hop…

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World AIDS Day – Get Tested and Remembering

World AIDS Day - black gay men get tested

As we all know, today is World AIDS Day and Black Gay Men’s Blog urges black gay and bisexual men and MSM to get tested. There is a lot of power in knowing your HIV status, it can save your life and prevent you from passing the virus on to…

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Black Gay Men’s Blog Reflects and Gives Thanks

Black Gay Men's Blog says thanks at Thanksgiving

Black Gay Men’s Blog wishes a Happy Thanksgiving and Thanksgiving weekend to all who celebrate it. By the time you read this, most of you would have finished stuffing your stomachs with turkey and all the trimmings. Many would have had a litle too much to drink and had the…

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Sexuality and Identity: Does Gay Sex Make One Homosexual?

gay sex and sexual identity

The previous blog post about black gay and bisexual men seducing straight men prompted a lot discussion on Facebook and on Skype. I decided to start a separate dialog, because there was a lot of focus on whether or not a man could be considered straight if he has had…

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Black Gay Men and Seducing Straight Dudes

black gay men seducing straight men

It’s advice time again at Black Gay Men’s Blog, as Zamo, a bisexual black male, needs help seducing his straight neighbor. Gay and bisexual men lusting after straight dudes is nothing new and as long as same sex attraction exists, there will be a black gay man(or in this case,…

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Black Gay Relationships In A Facebook World

black gay men - friendships and relationships in a socially challenged digital age

Black Gay Men’s Blog explores friendships, dating and relationships in this digital age of Facebook, Twitter and texting, which has left many of us socially challenged. It is quite ironic that with all the current means of communication, many black gay men have been left unable to and unwilling to…

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Black Gay Men Becoming Transexuals For Straight Trade

black gay men becoming transexuals for straight trade

This is an interesting skit on why some black gay men become transsexuals. At first glance, it might come across as just a funny skit, but there might be some truth to it. Some black gay men are enticed into to the world of wigs/weaves and pumps by the promise…

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Black Gay Coming Out Story: Bisexual Dad

black gay coming out story - Shon and bisexual dad

Just wanted to share another Youtube coming out story with readers of Black Gay Men’s Blog. As we all know, coming out can be quite nerve wracking and should be done whenever the individual is ready, whether that is at a younger age or later in life. One of the…

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